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We want to apologize to all our fans and followers for being MIA the last couple of months, but hopefully you'll forgive us...we were a bit preoccupied, after all!
Our bundle of joy was born on Christmas Day, and we could not have been more thrilled. Talk about a great gift! And don't worry, we'll make sure she doesn't get jipped in the present department as she gets older ;)
Becoming parents has added such an amazing aspect to our marriage. There was a lot of worry in our 20s about whether or not kids would be a good thing for us. We were concerned about how it might affect our stellar relationship, and as D-day grew closer, we wondered more and more about how our little girl would change our lives.
We read a staggering statistic the other day that 67% of couples are unhappy, and many end in divorce, as a result of having children! Yikes! That's a lot of pressure to put on an innocent little baby, don't ya think? I think before we blame the children, we must first look at the stability of the relationship before the baby's arrival.
Yes, it's true that having a baby presents new challenges to a couple, and certainly introduces a level of stress. Sleepless nights can contribute greatly to crabbiness and poor communication the next day. But there are ways around this!
Tony Robbins says that if you have anxiety about something, you must take action so that all anxiety can be removed over the situation. So Aaron and I took action during my pregnancy! We read books on how to start eat/sleep training your baby from day 1. We learned the "cuddle cure", which teaches you a surefire way to calm your baby in mere minutes, or even seconds. And we worked as a team from the beginning to put our book learning into practice.
So before you throw kids into your midst, or even if you already have them and find that the stresses of parenthood are putting a strain on your marriage, learn how to be a team player! Chapter 6, Marriage is a Team Sport, will get you and your partner playing for the same team! |